标签：地道 脆弱 vulnerability TED ---- they 用语 my out
有勇气承认自己不完美，否则就会因为害怕不完美而逃避很多事情。
愿意放手自己设定的那个理想自我，以换取真正的自我。
让我们变得脆弱的东西，也让我们变得美丽。
脆弱不是寻求舒适，易不是钻心的疼痛，而仅仅只是必须的。
愿意尝试结果不定的事。
脆弱是耻辱感和恐惧的根源，是我们为自我价值而挣扎的根源，但同时它也是快乐、创造性、归属感和爱的源泉。
And original definition was to tell the story of who you are with your whole heart.
---- of + who you are
----真心地叙述一个故事，告诉大家你是谁
Have the courage to be imperfect.
----有勇气承认自己不完美
Because, as it turns out, we can’t practice compassion with other people if we can‘t treat ourselves kindly.
----turn out
----parctice compassion with 对…慈悲/怜悯
----若我们无法善待自己，亦无法善待他人
And that was the hard part..
As a result of authenticity
----authenticity 真实性，原真性，确实性
----前提是必须坦诚
They were willing to let go of who they thought they should be in order to be who they are.
---- be willing to
---- let go of
----他们愿意放开自己设定的那个理想自我(执着即菩提), 以换取真正的自我!
They fully embraced vulnerability
----他们全心接收脆弱
They believed that what made them vulnerable made them beautiful.
----他们相信让他们变得脆弱的东西，也让他们变得美丽。
They didn’t talk about vulnerability being comfortable, nor did they really talk about it being excruciating—they just talked about it being necessary.
---- excruciating 折磨人的，极痛苦的
----他们不认为脆弱是寻求舒适，也不认为脆弱是钻心的疼痛，他们只是简单地认为脆弱是必须的
The willingness to do something where there are no guarantees, the willingness to breathe through waiting for the doctor to call after your mammogram.
---- mammogram 乳房X光检查
----breathe through + ing
----愿意尝试不打保票的事情，愿意在昨晚乳房X光线后等待医生的电话。
The are willing to invest in a relationship that may or may not work out.
---- invest + in 投资于
----may or may not work out 无论有无结果
I personally thought it was betrayal.
---- betrayal 注意发音 [bɪ'treɪəl]
I could not believe I had pledged allegiance to research, where our job…
----pledge [pledʒ] 保证给予(或做)，正式承诺
---- allegiance [ə'liːdʒ(ə)ns] 效忠，拥戴
----pledge allegiance 宣誓
You know, the definition of research is to control and predict, to study phenomena
And now my mission to control and predict had turned up the answer that the way to live is with vulnerability and to stop controlling and prediciting.
---- 而我现在的使命，即控制和预测，却给出一个这样的结果：要想与脆弱并存, 就要停止控制和预测
This led to a little breakdown.
----于是我崩溃了
My therapist calls it a spiritual awakening.
---- therapist (某治疗法的)治疗专家，(尤指心理疗法的)治疗师 (A therapist is a person who is skilled in a particular type of therapy, especially psychotherapy – 柯林斯)
----我的心理医生称之为灵魂的觉醒
And I had to put my data away and go find a therapist.
---- put … away
---- go find
I wouldn’t want to be your therapist.
---- wouldn’t want
Don‘t bring your measuring stick.
I brought in my list of the way the whole-hearted live, and I sat down.
---- bring in
----我带去一份表单，上面都是那些全身心投入到生活的人的生活方式
Because their B.S. meters are good
---- 因为他们的废话测量仪很准(知道你何时在说真心话)
And I know that vulnerability is kind of the core of shame and fear and our struggle for worthiness, but it appears that it’s also the birthplace of joy, of creativity, of belonging, of love.
----脆弱是耻辱感和恐惧的根源，是我们为自我价值而挣扎的根源，但同时它也是快乐、创造性、归属感和爱的源泉。
no family stuff, no children shit..
so she goes like this..
---- 她的反应是这样的
Oh my god, this is going to suck.
---- 我的天，要悲剧了！
And you know how there are people that, when they realize that vulnerability and tenderness are important, that they kind of surrender and walk into it.
----tenderness
----surrender 投降，放弃
----当他们发现脆弱和温柔很重要的时候，他们放下所有戒备, 欣然接受。
I don’t hang out with people like that
----我的朋友里面也没有这样的人
For me, it was a yearlong street fight.
---- yearlong
---- street fight
It was a slugfest. Vulnerability pushed, I pushed back.
---- 激烈的争斗(或比赛)，对手猛烈击打的拳击比赛
---- 脆弱打我一拳，我又还击一拳。
I lost the fight, but probably won my life.
Am I alone in struggling with vulnerability?
---- alone in + ing
So this is I learned. We numb vulnerability.
Within an hour and a half, I had 150 responses.
Because I wanted to know what’s out there.
---- 我想知道大家都是怎么想的
Initiating sex with my husband.
Being turned down.
----被拒绝
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